After Awhile

After awhile you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul,
And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning and company doesn't mean security,
And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts and presents aren't promises,
And you begin to accept your defeats with you head up and your eyes open, with the grace of an adult, not the grief of a child, 
And you learn to build all your roads on today because tomorrow's ground is to uncertain for plans.
After awhile you learn that even sunshine burns if you get to much
So plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers. 
And you learn that you really can endure...
That you really are strong
And you really do have worth
~Veronica A. Shoffstall

A 2nd helping of Chicken Soup for the Soul

Percikan Bijak

Apa pun yang kau lakukan, pintu hatiku selalu terbuka untukmu.

Jangan pernah izinkan orang lain merenggut kebahagiaanmu.

Orang bijak bukanlah orang yang tidak melakukan kesalahan, namun mereka yang memaafkan diri sendiri dan belajar dari kesalahan.

Ketika tak ada yang perlu dilakukan, ya jangan ngapa-ngapain!

Kedamaian lebih penting daripada siapa yang benar dan siapa yang salah.

Esensi Dhamma adalah… melepas.

- Percikan Bijak Ajahn Brahm - 

Ajahn Brahm Tour d'Indonesia, page 32 

No Strings Attached

Emma : I'm not good at this stuff. 

Adam : At what, talking?

Emma : Yeah, talking... communicating... relationship stuff.  It's just... If we were in a relationship I'd become a weird scary version of myself, and my throat starts constricting, the walls start throbbing, it's like a peanut allergy. It's like an emotional peanut allergy. 

 No Strings Attached (2011) - Peanut Allergy Movie Scene

Lucu ^^ 

hahaha, si bebek ga bagus juga dalam hal relationship. 

Why do we fall?

Thomas Wayne : And why do we fall, Bruce? So we can learn to pick ourselves up. 

Batman Begins (2005)